A double headstone marks the resting place of two people, often a married couple. It gives families a way to remember both lives in one space. Choosing the words and designs can feel hard, but it can also be a loving task.
Basic Details to Include
Most double headstones start with the names of the two people. These are often written with first name and surname. Many also add birth and death yrs (e.g., 1945–2020). Some families include the full dates (DD/MM/YY), while others keep it simple.
It is also common to add the relationship, like Beloved Husband and Wife or Parents of Anna and Lee. This helps future visitors understand the family link.
Personal Touches
Beyond the basics, a double headstone can have short quotes, Bible verses, or lines from poems. For example, a family in Spain chose the line Siempre juntos en el cielo (“Always together in heaven”). This was placed under both names to show their life-long love.
Symbols are another way to make the design unique. Common symbols include hearts, flowers, or a cross. Some cemetries allow carved images, like a small photo of the couple.
Design Choices
The shape and material matter too. Granite is a popular choice because it lasts for many decades. Marble can look beautiful, but it may fade faster in the rain and sun. In some EU countries, there are rules on stone size and color. Families should check with the local cemetery before placing an order.
The lettering style can also change the mood. Block letters feel strong, while script feels gentle. On a double headstone, both names usually match in font and size, even if they were added years apart.
Facts and Tips
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Fact: A double headstone can be upright or flat, but upright lasts longer against weather.
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Fact: The avg cost is higher than a single headstone because it is larger.
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Fact: Adding art or special cuts can raise the price by 20–30%.
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Tip: Plan the wording early so there is space for both names.
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Tip: Keep the stone clean to prevent moss damage.
In the UK, many couples order the stone years before it is needed. This allows them to choose the design together. It also means the second name can be engraved later with matching style.
Final Thoughts
A double headstone is more than stone. It is a record of two lives joined together. The right design speaks to both the heart and the eye. Whether simple or detailed, it will stand for generations as a sign of love.
