Families sometimes want to add a photo, plaque, or flower holder to a loved one’s headstone. Knowing the right way helps protect the stone and keeps the memory safe.
Common Ways to Attach Items
Most cemeteries allow bronze plaques, vase holders, or ceramic photos. These are set with epoxy or stone-safe glue. According to the BSM (British Stone Masons) Assoc., epoxy can hold for more than 20 yrs if used right.
Clamps or brackets can also be used. Many are made from SS (stainless steel) and resist rust. For heavier items, like a lamp or cross, a mason may use bolts. Bolts are drilled into the granite and sealed with mortar.
A Story from France
In Lyon, France, a family added a small ceramic photo of their mother on her granite headstone. The mason used a UV-resist epoxy to fix it. The photo has stayed in place for 15 yrs, even with rain and snow. The family said it gave them peace to see her smile each visit.
Rules and Safety
Cemeteries have rules. Some ban tape or weak glue, since they fail in 1–2 yrs. The ICCM (Institute of Cemetery and Crematorium Mgmt.) in the UK says unsafe items can fall and hurt people. Always ask the office before fixing anything.
What You Can Attach
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Small plaques
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Name plates
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Vase holders
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Ceramic or porcelain photos
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Religious symbols
Avoid soft metal hooks or cheap tape. These often brek after a short time.
Tips for Families
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Check with the cemetery staff (CEM staff).
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Use a mason with exp (experience).
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Pick UV safe glue.
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Avoid quick fixes like tape.
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Think about weather.
Final Thought
Attaching something to a headstone is about care and respect. The right method keeps the memory lasting. As seen in the case from France, with safe materials and rules followed, the tribute can stay for many yrs.
