What is done with the ashes after cremation?
When someone dies, many families opt for cremation. After the cremation, the body is reduced to ashes, or cremains. The question many families then ask is, “What do we do with the ashes now?” There are many ways, and each family can choose what fits them best.
Keeping Ashes at Home
Some ppl prefer to keep ashes at home. They can use urns, boxes, or even special jewelry, like necklaces or rings. Sometimes, comfort comes from having ashes close by. An example could be that in Italy, one family I know kept their grandmother’s ashes in a small urn on a shelf. Every day, they could light a candle and remember her.
Burial of Ashes
Other common methods include burials. Many cemeteries have special plots for ashes, known as an interment, which can be in a family grave or a special area known as an ash garden. Many cemeteries will also permit scattering ashes in a plot instead of the full burial. In France, many cemeteries have gardens where ashes are permitted to be scattered in a formal way, giving families a public place to visit.
Scattering Ashes
Scattering of ashes is popular. Families can scatter ashes in oceans, rivers, mountains, or other meaningful places. Laws vary by country. For example, scattering ashes in a public place is allowed in the UK, but only with permission if it is private land. Many people find scattering peaceful and it symbolizes returning to nature.
Creative Options
Some families do very creative things with ashes. For example, turning the ashes into diamonds, planting them with trees, or making them into works of art-all leave a lasting memory. A family in Germany planted a tree with their father’s ashes; now the tree is growing in their garden, a daily reminder of him.
Legal and Safety Rules
Following local rules is very important. Often, cemeteries, crematoriums, and local government set certain rules as to how ashes are stored or scattered. According to use, some urns need to be fireproof or waterproof. Legal requirements are included on most of the cremation papers.
Personal Choices Matter
Ultimately, it depends on what the family wants and what the deceased wanted for his or her ashes. Some ppl want privacy; others want a public memorial. That’s a personal decision. Talk to the family or a funeral director, at least, so everybody knows what options are out there.
Conclusion Ashes after cremation can stay at home, be buried, scattered, or turned into keepsakes. Europe demonstrates that many families find comfort in gardens or trees. Following legal rules and personal wishes ensures respect. Everyone can find a way that feels right for them.
