Two headstones stand on one grave. This sight might catch your eye when you visit a cemetery. But is this a common practice? The answer is yes – you can have two headstones on a single grave in most cases.
Why People Choose Two Headstones
Families pick two headstones for different reasons. A couple might want to share the same burial plot but keep their own markers. This happens when husband and wife want to rest together but want their own stone.
John and Mary Thompson in Oak Hill Cemetery in Chicago show this choice. Their grave has two stones – one pink granite marker for John and one white marble stone for Mary. The stones sit side by side but look different.
Some graves have a main headstone plus a foot marker. The main stone shows the name and dates, while the small foot stone might show a symbol or initials. The Davis family plot in Green Lawn Cemetery uses this style with six graves that each have two markers.
Rules About Multiple Headstones
Each cemetery has its own rulz about grave markers. Before you make plans, check with the cemetery office. Some places limit the size, number, and materiel of headstones.
For example, Memorial Gardens allows two flat markers but no tall monuments. Forest Park Cemetery permits two headstones if they match in style and color.
Veterans might have two stones – one from the goverment and one from the family. The military stone follows strict rules about size and design, but families can add a personal stone with different information.
Cost of Two Headstones
The price for two headstones costs more than one. Each stone needs its own foundation and instalation fees. The price depends on:
- Size of stones
- Type of stone (granite, marble, bronze)
- Engraving and design details
- Cemetery fees
Two simple flat markers might cost $2,000 total, while two large upright monuments could cost $10,000 or more.
Making the Decision
If you consider two headstones, think about:
- Does the cemetery allow it?
- Do you have space in your budget?
- What information would go on each stone?
- Would one larger stone work better?
The Johnson twins who died on the same day have two identical stones at Pine Rest Cemetery. Their parents felt each child deserved their own memorial, though they share one plot.
Other Options
Instead of two seperate headstones, some families choose:
- One large stone with two sides
- A companion monument with two names
- A central family stone with small markers for each person
The Rodriguez family plot has one tall center stone with the family name, plus small markers for each of the eight family membres buried there.
When you plan a memorial, remember the purpose is to honor your loved ones. Whether you choose one headstone or two, the marker helps keep their memory alive for future generations.
